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Dude just stated how much of his free time he is willing to provide to others for free and put a line on what he is willing to commit.

And somehow this thread thinks that’s harsh or petty?

Is literally any person complaining about this guy setting reasonable boundaries paying him money to do this work?

Seriously, this thread is honestly vile and these people are a perfect example as to why this is happening.

How they are this blind to their own toxicity is beyond me

That’s a great idea. The area I live in is pretty mountainous so putting nodes on ridges provide pretty good coverage

I mean… Why not?

I want Gmail without Google. Protonmail sells that to me, seems like a win/win.

Same for other services.

FR. It’s just projection.

Of course they would. It’s only allowed as long as the genders aren’t flipped.

Everything is incremental progress in some way.

I remember years back someone doing experiments with Wi-Fi to see if a room was occupied based on signal attenuation.

This just looks like an extension of that.

Not everything is a giant leap

Given your in-depth knowledge of Wi-Fi to consider it blocked by cardboard, I somehow doubt the rest of this comment is credible…

You’re kind of putting words in my mouth here.

I didn’t say that I’m afraid of him dying every time they leave the house, you said that.

I’m afraid of them dying when they’re traveling 20 hours. Or over a mountain pass. Or various other reasons. They travel a lot and I get worried that’s just how it is.

When calculating travel costs, I also dug up some statistics and figured what the chance of crashing, injury and death were based on how much driving we do on an annual basis based on national averages.

I actually thought knowing that would make me less stressed about all the travel but it didn’t help because the numbers are kind of depressing.

For real and there’s so many people in this thread who have only had toxic relationships or are in toxic relationships, projecting insecurities and lack of trust onto others who may not have these problems.

I don’t think this is a good idea for most people, but for some it makes sense and we need to remember that everyone is in different situations.

When you have a spouse that travels a lot, anxiety can get pretty high.

A lot of those people are projecting their insecurities onto others relationships.

if I take a coworker home, go out to lunch, etc w/o telling my SO, and they see that deviation in my routine, they could start doubting that trust

This means there are still significant insecurities in the relationship that can bubble up and become problems, and you know about these.

You do not trust your spouse to trust you and not misinterpret your intentions.

Paradoxally You can defeat some of this insecurity by being transparent and welcoming misinterpretation if you believe you both have full trust in each other.

As a high anxiety person myself, this works to defeat the anxiety which is often feared of the unknown. By proving that deviations to your routine are not something they should feel anxious about, then that anxiety can melt away.

It’s only vile when you project insecurities or bad intent…

We both know each other’s passwords for everything. We use a shared database for it. We both know each other’s phone, unlock codes and often through laziness will just use each other’s phones for shit. We shared the same bank accounts, we don’t have separate money. We share the same vehicles…etc

What’s mine is hers, what’s hers is mine. Except literally.

We also both have each other’s location. What do we use this for? Essentially nothing except when one of us is traveling, or someone is feeling neurotic/worried. The peace of mind knowing that your significant other didn’t just die in a car crash part way to their destination and are still making progress is significant.

We don’t hide things from each other, we’ve explicitly built a relationship of openness and trust, brought on by us actually_not_ trusting each other for a long time. We are completely transparent, and you know what this has helped build? Trust. Know what it has torn down? Insecurities. It’s been great.

Would recommend.

This is how it works with us too.

I’m kind of neurotic and get worried that something may have happened to her while she’s traveling, which she does a lot. If she’s supposed to arrive somewhere and hasn’t I start pacing and biting my nails thinking of all the bad things that could have happened.

We shared each other’s location and the peace of mind has helped a lot.

We don’t keep secrets from each other. Some folks in this thread see location sharing as a threat, I assume because they are uncomfortable or have existing trust issues with their relationship that are yet to be resolved?

Unless the business is ran by complete morons, it’s pretty unlikely that there is not some form of vetting or validation.

The validation may have problems and may have holes but it probably exists.

At least to me the one of the first questionswhen building a X For Hire service, aside from where do you find X and where do you find the people to hire them, Is how do you know that these people are actually X.

Probably the most blind ignorant take here.

Their user base is still growing, and given it was at 100 million in 2024. Yeah, people still use notion.

Idk how one can be this obtuse.

Arrr, my friend

It’s a bit of a catch honestly.

OSS/community Linux graphical environments have kind of always been ~5 years out from what’s needed. 15 years ago they were behind ~5 years, 5 years ago they where behind ~5 years.

The only difference is today. I think they’re only behind by ~3-4 years thanks to the backwards movement of things like Windows and OSx staleness.

Mobile operating systems are in a worse place.

Battery information doesn’t exist for me :(

Pixel 6