• kautau@lemmy.world
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    14 hours ago

    My fiancé lost her father recently just after we watched

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    The episode with the brother and sister losing their dad. She lives in another country, and I wasn’t able to be there in person. Instead, on a discord video call since she put her phone down while I was keeping her company, I watched as she cried out for her dad as they tried to revive him. I don’t think I’ll ever experience a more shitty moment in my life.

    Thankfully, she’s now in higher spirits after a month and is being positive by looking at old photos, keeping up with hobbies and stuff.

    Wishing you the best, I lost my mom when I was 11, no death of a loved one is ever easy.

    • SirSamuel@lemmy.world
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      18 hours ago

      Grief is weird and normal. Glad she’s in relatively good spirits. Sometimes I get The Sads or The Grumpies and don’t know why until I remember. Try to be patient with her and yourself. You sound like a good friend

      And remember, grief doesn’t have an expiration date